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The Do’s and Don’ts of Moving in With Your Significant Other

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You’ve made the big, life-altering decision to move in together. And, now – as you start to pack up your things – your mind is reeling…how is this going to work? Will this last? How can we combine our lives into one space?

Here are some practical tips for how to give it your best shot. Some of these things may seem like common sense, but some might surprise you.

Do: Ask Before You Assume

Before you assume that hanging wet boxers on bathroom doorknobs is the best way to dry them out quickly, ask your partner if that would bother them. In this case, I’m pretty sure it’s a 100% yes. While, other trivial things like where to store seasonal clothes or coffee mugs – might just warrant quick conversations. The point is to just be cognizant of the fact that “your way” (or your old way) of doing things might need to be altered now that you’re sharing a roof with someone else.

Don’t: Bring Everything You Own

It’s worth taking inventory of everything you own to make sure you won’t be doubling up on large non-essential items. It will save you time and money in the long run not to move these things. Plan to donate them or having a garage sale prior to your move date.

Do: Discuss Roles & Expectations

One of the most important hurdles you will overcome as couple living together will be managing joint financial responsibilities and roles. Go someplace relaxing or fun to have these discussions. Bring your lap top and breakdown who will pay what and when. Then discuss how you will split up household chores. You want to know up-front if your partner is a more traditionalist or sees your roles as a 50/50 split.

Don’t: Be Over-Bearing With Your Style

Go shopping together for decorative items that will make your new place your home together. Be careful not to assume that one person’s taste trumps the others. Be sensitive and work on finding a style you can agree on. Try to have some fun along the way.

Lastly – this is a big step. Be sure you are prepared for a few bumps along the way and enjoy the adventure. If you’re ready to find a moving company to help you make the leap, let us give you a free moving quote: http://www.beltmann.com/chicago-movers/